Spirit Release: Helping Lost Souls Move into the Light
Review of a Spirit Release Forum conference
Spirit Release:
Helping Lost Souls Move into the Light
A review by Fiona Bowie
On Saturday 22nd
June 2013 I attended a one-day conference in London organised by the Spirit
Release Forum, www.spiritrelease.org.
DVDs of the talks are available from the Spirit Release Forum website, but the
following comments are taken from notes made at the time. Spirit release, a
gentle version of what is usually termed exorcism, is likely to produce a
quizzical smile or perhaps provoke anxiety, based on the world of film or television.
There are those, however, who hold that many of the physical and psychological
ills facing people are the result of spirit attachments and possession, which
occur when the spirits of people who die fail to make a successful transition
to the next stage of existence. This may be because they don’t realise that
they are dead, or because they are confused and lost or afraid to move on to
the realm of Light, as it is often called (or the higher astral planes in the
language of Spiritualism or Theosophy). The spirit world and afterlife are part
of the cultural framework of most peoples in the world. In a generally more
narrowly materialist Western context it is less common to be among people for
whom spirits are real, not metaphors or the product of an over-active
imagination.
The
six speakers at the conference had complementary knowledge and interests, and a
great deal of practical experience in healing people, places and spirits. The
audience of around sixty were by and large also a pretty knowledgeable group
that included a number of mediums, psychics, spiritual healers and people with experience
of alternative healing. About two thirds of the audience were female, with ages
ranging mainly from mid to late thirties to seventies plus. Some of those
present were members of the Spirit Release Forum and I recognised others from
events at the College of Psychic Studies and
Scientific
and Medical Network. One of the speakers, Dr Terence Palmer, was
known to me from his contributions to the Afterlife Research Centre and
ARC Forum (where he has posted videos of his own spirit release work). There
was a sense that the speakers and audience were among friends, or at least the
like-minded, and did not have to be defensive about their work. The day was
ably chaired by founding member of the Spirit Release Forum, David Furlong. He
has over forty years experience as a healer and spirit release therapist, and
is author of the popular and influential book The Healer Within.
The day began with an acknowledgment
of and invitation to the ancestors and other spirits present, along with the
assembled participants.
1) Archibald Lawrie, ‘Best Practice and Successful Methodologies in
Spirit Release’
Our first speaker was Archie
Lawrie, a seasoned investigator of over 600 cases of parapsychological
phenomena, hauntings and spirit healings, and author of the Psychic Investigators Handbook. He started with an intriguing
list of statistics (which can be checked on the DVD, my notes should be
regarded as approximate). In Archie’s experience 88% of reported psychic phenomena
occur in a domestic setting, the commonest being the sense of someone’s
presence. There does not appear to be any ethnic predisposition to psychic
ability, but there is an indication that it might be inherited. People who
phoned Archie saying that their house was haunted were correct an estimated 99%
of the time, although poltergeists and apparitions only accounted for less than
1% each of psychic phenomena. While most people can sense the presence of
spirits, only about 3% of the population can actually identify an individual
spirit. However, when asked the sex of a ghost about 70% of Archie’s
respondents could detect it correctly. In addition to male and female ghosts,
Archie had come across human/animal mythical creatures such as half man, half goat
or half man, half wolf. These could be real spiritual beings taking forms
intended to frighten others (or perhaps thought forms?). Some 20% of spirits
have forgotten their name. An often-used formula to help a spirit remember who
they were in life is to ask them what someone (e.g. their mother) would call
them, imagining a scenario that could jog their memory. When it comes to
releasing earthbound spirits compassionate listening is enough to help around
30% to move on. The remainder need more help, although it is only around 3% of
spirits who cause 99% of the problems to the living. They include rapists and
sexual predators who often try to hide psychically from a medium or psychic who
tries to contact them. Some spirits are afraid to move on, like a blacksmith
who murdered his wife and daughter, who could create a barrier of smoke or
steam. Other spirits, referred to as chokers, can frighten the living by
putting a hand around their throat or by creating visible scratches. These
individuals were often mentally ill when they died. Entities who had limited
contact with human beings at the end of their lives might become ‘wild men’
after death and lose some of their humanity. Others might be battle-hardened,
like the spirit of a Viking who possessed a girl for two years, or have become
strongly attached to a building or place. The deceased relatives of those who
have become stuck or earthbound can often assist in releasing spirits, acting
as guides to help them find the Light.
Archie Lawrie’s approach was pragmatic and sympathetic – a far cry
from the ghostbuster TV image of haunted houses and disturbed spirits. Even
those who might try to frighten the living or who did terrible things during
their lives are (or were) ultimately ordinary people in need of help. The
concern Archie demonstrated in his talk to help the dead as well as the living
was a characteristic of all the speakers during this conference. His accounts
were reminiscent of those described historically and contemporaneously by other
spirit release practitioners, such as the Swedish American physician Carl
Wickland in his book Thirty Years Among
the Dead (1924).
2) Natalia O’Sullivan, ‘The Ancestral Continuum: How the Ancestors
Affect Us’
Natalia O’Sullivan was
introduced as both the author of two recent books, Soul Rescuers, and The
Ancestral Continuum, and as a healer and spirit release practitioner. She
started by describing her own mixed Hungarian/Spanish parentage and the ways in
which ancestors can follow you, and their agendas move through the family tree.
One person in a family can become the repository for family secrets and the
collective energy of a family. There can be mental health problems running like
a black river though a family. People often awaken to family trauma in their
teens, and can become aware of an ‘oddness’ that does not seem personal. Natalia
referred to some ‘earthbounds’ as ‘piggy-backers’ or ‘zombie dead’ who wander
through the centuries and can be hard to find and ‘catch’. In some cases past
family trauma can affect people. O’Sullivan referred to the case of Tania
(discussed in The Ancestral Continuum pp.81-2)
who suffered night paralysis and dreamt of fire. She would wake to see a dark
shadow sitting beside her and couldn’t get back to sleep. O’Sullivan picked up
on someone in the family who had died in a fire. Tania recalled that her
grandfather had died in a gas explosion that had destroyed the family home.
When the grandfather was acknowledged and given the chance to say what he
needed to say he vanished and Tania’s sleep problems ceased.
As
an adoptive mother I was interested to hear what Natalia O’Sullivan had to say
about adoption (and children who had ‘passed through’ without being born). I
can endorse from our own family experience what she said about the strength of
connection with both birth and adoptive families. It is not a question of
competition between them or one being more important than the other, but of
acknowledging both, and valuing spiritual, emotional and genetic connections,
which all go to make us who we are. O’Sullivan went on to talk about the
different roles we take on in our families, such as rescuer or carrier of
certain issues and patterns of behaviour. Her book gives examples of small
rituals people can perform to become aware of ancestors, and to replace
unhealthy with healthy connections. We all have ancestral guides or guardians,
she told us, who are there at our birth and death, as well as other spiritual
helpers, some known to us and some unknown (in our earth lives).
3) Terence Palmer, ‘The Science of Spirit Possession’
Our
third speaker, Terry Palmer, was well known to me through the Afterlife
Research Centre. Terry wrote a PhD on the pioneering Victorian scientist and
researcher of consciousness, Frederic W.H. Myers. Palmer is a practising spirit
release therapist as well as academic researcher. He gave us details of his own
fascinating journey through very different careers before becoming interested
in the fields of parapsychology and spirit possession. Like Myers and his Nineteenth
Century colleagues in the Society for Psychical Research, Palmer is convinced
that there are good scientific principles behind and explanations for
parapsychological phenomena, which deserve continued serious research. We were
given numerous examples of researchers and evidential data for a range of
phenomena relating to OBEs and spirit possession, that are in the public domain
but often ignored or dismissed. Links to many of these and a video of Terry’s
talk can be found on his website: http://www.tjpalmer.org.
As is so often the case, it
is the people you meet in the breaks who make such events such fun. I found
myself sitting next Judy Hall,
and two women artists at lunch. I had heard Judy speak at the College of
Psychic Studies on the healing power of crystals, but how many people choose to
spend their holidays in Egypt clearing earthbound spirits from the Aswan dam?
The artists could be described as wounded healers, they had both suffered long
term illnesses that had been healed through spirit release, and had gone on to
train with Sue Allen as spirit release healers. They were currently involved in
what they described as low-key spirit release work, such as space clearing for
family and friends.
4) Dr Tom Zinser, ‘Spirit Attachment: The Soul Connection’
Tom Zinser is an American
hypnotherapist and soul release therapist. In his presentation of clinical
findings relating to earthbound spirits there was a good deal of overlap with
Archibald Lawrie’s statistical experience with hauntings. Therapeutically
Zinser’s work resembled that of Edith Fiore and William Baldwin, with his use
of hypnosis to contact possessing or attached spirits (see Bowie on ‘Self,
Personhood and Possession’ for a description of these writers and
therapists). Zinser started off by claiming that people are composed of psychic
and spiritual as well as emotional and physical components, and that focusing
solely on the physical and emotional (conventional medicine and psychology) is
not sufficient. We need to look at the whole person. He also asserted that (1)
spirits are real and that (2) they
can and do interface with humans. Interactions with spirits (who may include
inter-dimensional beings as well as ‘dead’ humans – and presumably other types
of entity as well) can be conscious or unconscious and can cause medical and
psychological symptoms. Earth-bound souls have the same potential for
higher-level spiritual work as other spirits, but have forgotten or never quite
knew what they were supposed to do. Clinically, Zinser will ask whether a
spirit is present and affecting a person, and if so what he can do to stop it.
He works with a spirit guide, Gerald, (as most if not all spirit release
practitioners do). Zinser communicates with these spirits via the hypnotised
patient. The first task, having ascertained that a spirit is present and
causing trouble for the client, is to engage it in conversation and disengage it
from the client. The next step is to send the spirit to the Light. When a
spirit is directed to the Light and leaves there is an immediate transformation
in the client.
Some 40-50% of the spirits Tom Zinser engages leave on their first
encounter. The Divine Light, which is Love, resonates with their inner light
and the spirit begins to remember his or her place in the world. Some don’t see
the Light when they look around, and are directed to look inside to find their
own light (which is part of the greater whole). There are spirits who are more
difficult to shift. Some can’t find the light through fear, or perhaps they
have been threatened by other spirits who try to persuade them that the Light
will be harmful, or that they will suffer in some way. In these cases Tom will call on a spirit guide or helper. These
helping spirits will not act against someone’s free will – the earthbound soul
must still give consent. They are shown a beam of loving light, deceased loved
ones, an angel or perhaps a religious figure if that is what they expect to see
and is most helpful to them. If that does not work the therapist will continue
to engage with the spirit and try to awaken them to who they are. The therapist
is a go-between but cannot force the spirit to leave, although may ask help of
a higher-level figure if necessary. This works in approximately 70% of cases.
The remaining 30% of spirits refuse to cooperate. The therapist needs to find
out why the earthbound spirit continues to say ‘No!’ It might be fear of
judgement and punishment, particularly if they have died with a belief in Hell.
A higher-level spirit can try to communicate with them and persuade them that
there is no judgment in the light, other than that which comes from greater
self-knowledge.
If a
spirit moves towards the Light and then stops it is usually because of a
remembered trauma. They see the Light as a source of pain, whereas in reality
the Light can reveal, but not cause pain. Some spirits are angry with God and
blame God for what has happened to them, and react by rejecting the Light/God.
Zinser will offer spirit contact with a loved one for souls who have become
stuck, but will not promise to find any particular individual, as those who
have already reincarnated may not be available. Others don’t realise that they
have died and are still looking for a body. The anxiety of the patient or
client can form a kind of energy body for the lost spirit. There are some spirits
who are taken over by dark, deceptive and controlling souls who enslave them.
They may enter into a contract with a dark soul to provide immortality, revenge
and so on. The task of the therapist is to persuade the spirit that it can end
this contract whenever it chooses, and help it to believe that he or she is and
always has been a being of light.
Tom
Zinser’s conclusion was that fear of death is a key factor in distorting
people’s behaviour and in depriving them of a good death and transition to the
Light. There is an urgent need for better education concerning death and the
afterlife.
5) Sue Allen, ‘Heart Centred Spirit Release’
Our
final speaker was spirit-release therapist Sue Allen, who has a successful
private practice, and acts as a trainer as well as author and speaker. Her book
Spirit Release: A Practical Handbook,
was published in 2007. Again, using her clinical experience, Sue Allen stressed
the gentle side of spirit release therapy. Quiet confidence, combined with
training, spiritual preparation, the help and protection of spirit guides, enables
Sue Allen to deal with even the darker forces, with none of the frightening melodrama
of popular film, TV and literature. Treatment involves being calm, often
silent. Allen works psychically rather than through hypnosis, and communicates with
the spirits telepathically, with the help of her spirit guides. Earthbound
spirits do not have to be traumatised in order to leave their host. When they
do leave, clients often show remarkable improvements. Sue gave an example of
one of her cases which involved an ‘ET’ who was gathering experience but also
inadvertently affecting her male client. Having diagnosed the problem, Sue Allen
quoted the law of non-interference. The entity still refused to leave, so she
asked her spirit guide to call in the ‘Commander’. A space ship and other ET’s
arrived (presumably only visible psychically, operating on a different
vibrational/visible level). She asked them to take the possessing entity away
with them, which they did. The client reported some bizarre experience of
space-craft and aliens during the session. As the visitor was a living being
and not ready to the Light, it was sent home using telepathic heart communication.
The term ‘heart-centred’ was explained as a state of being fully in
the present moment, which offers natural protection, and enables one to vibrate
at a higher level than most earthbound spirits. (This sounded very reminiscent
of John Hagelin’s
scientific explanation of matter composed of different vibrations and the way
in which meditation affects our natural harmonic frequencies). The heart-centre
needs to be open to the client rather than projecting what the therapist
expects. Allen also claimed that this was not a matter of belief, but of
knowing. Her own experience was such that she did not need proof that the
phenomena described are real. Sue Allen stuck me as very down-to-earth, unlikely
to be susceptible to flights of fancy, however bizarre such stories may sound
outside occasions such as this conference. Allen also articulated an idea found
frequently in the writings of Robert Monroe and Bruce Moen (from The Monroe Institute, looking at out
of body experiences), that spirits can be held by their belief systems. If they
have committed suicide, for instance, and believe that they will go to Hell,
they may find themselves in a kind of limbo. Her task is to diagnose their
problem. Someone who does not believe in life after death may attach him or
herself to a surviving spouse or child, or become trapped in a place as their
belief that death is the end is stronger than their current experience of still
being conscious. Treatment involves acceptance and compassion. The spirit needs
to be assured that they will go to a place of love, not of fear.
Another example Sue Allen gave of a non-human attachment was of a
girl who had an elemental (nature spirit) on her back. Here the treatment
involved persuading the spirit to return to nature, rather than to the Light.
In cases of house clearance, i.e. removing attached spirits or energies from a
building, it might be necessary to recreate the house in the Light (there are
many channelled accounts of the deceased mentally recreating their earth
environments, or improved versions of them, in the astral planes). Sue stressed
that she will not negotiate with spirits. She needs to stay in control of the
process. Her role is to explain, educate and facilitate, and to try to resolve
situations, with help from more evolved spirits. The aim is to release the
attached spirits to a place from which they can’t return, not simply to expel
them from a client. Finding the right place for each one is a task for spirit
guides, not the therapist.
Dark force entities (DFE’s) can be sent consciously or unconsciously
as a form of psychic attack (cf. anthropologist Paul Stoller’s account of a
psychic attack originating in Niger, West Africa, which followed him to the
USA, in his book In Sorcery’s Shadow).
DFE’s may have been human but have lost their humanity as a result of trauma,
anger, and other strong uncontrolled emotions. They need to be taken back to a
time when they were human. Allen gave the example of a grandfather who had
suffered at the hands of a very cruel grandson, and had been so angry that when
he died he gradually descended into becoming a DFE. He had to be reminded of
his humanity to enable healing to take place.
It is easy, at least from where I sat in the audience, to imagine
that each therapist will find what they and their clients expect to find,
whether it is possessing spirits, ancestors or aliens. It was therefore
something of a relief when Sue Allen ended with the example of a client who was
not possessed. A mother had brought her fifteen-year-old son, a very damaged
child, to therapy, convinced that he was a victim of spirit possession. Allen
did not find any evidence of spirit attachment, and concluded that he was a
very angry young man who had projected his anger outwards. He needed
conventional therapy rather than spirit release. She ended by stressing the
importance of not colluding with clients’ stories, but of being heart-centred
so as to get to the truth of a situation.
I was not able to stay for the general discussion at the end, but
enjoyed an unusual and thought-provoking
day.
Additional Links
See also the Spirit Release
Foundation: http://www.spiritrelease.com,
which has a good selection of articles on spirit release, and my article on Self,
Personhood and Possession.
Labels: Archie Lawrie, attachment, David Furlong, ghosts, haunting, healing, hypnotherapy, Natalia O'Sullivan., Possession, Spirit release, Spirit Release Forum, Sue Allen, Terence Palmer, Tom Zinser